#The coping mechanism is literally just
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Why does it hurt so much to find out that one of my comfort characters has the same coping mechanism?
#This post is about Captain from bbc Ghosts#The coping mechanism is literally just#“Do EVERYTHING in your power to keep yourself#especially your mind#busy because if you it can't hurt you if you don't think about it“
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are you guys seeing this shit
#ouoohgh the parallels#like they knew right#they knew from the start these two are just the same guy ideologically speaking#because they ARE the same guy#just one got assigned a talent and the other didnt#and guess what#the guy who got the talent still doesnt think he is talented enough and resents himself#becoming a mouthpiece for the academy's harmful ideology#because its still the only worth he sees in himself#and its also the coping mechanism to him being cursed by god#which is also attributed to his talent!#vs#the guy that literally did sell himself body and soul for the academy#in order to achieve a talent#and the monkey finger curled inwards#and he became a disconnected test subject#that probably wasn't even built to last#and he on top of that was used as a bargaining chip to cause the apocalypse#like isn't that basically the good luck/bad luck cycle?#anyway#he's just like him fr fr#apoca.log#danganronpa#danganposting#sdr2#hajime hinata#nagito komaeda
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“Sophie became exactly like Keefe in Stellarlune”
Loud incorrect buzzer
Sophie, beginning in Neverseen and slowly in increasing amounts begins to pick up Keefe’s way of speaking/his form of snarkiness/his style of humor because she spends a TON of time around him and our speech patterns are influenced by those around us. Also, she got older and more confident, so a lot of her shyness melted away. But she is the girl she’s always been—just a lot more confident and making a lot more of the same style of jokes as one of her closest relationships. That is way more realistic than y’all give it credit for
#also! it’s explicitly stated in the books many times that Sophie RECOGNIZES she’s behaving more like keefe#on purpose#and appreciates his style of humor as a coping mechanism#like. she SAYS that. in neverseen. in flashback. probably in other places too. oh and I think in stellarlune#YOU DONT have to appreciate it#but Sophie does and Shannon is writing this influence of keefe on his girlfriend very much on purpose#like. it is TOLD to us. idk why y’all are surprised by it#she literally TELLS us she’s being influenced by keefe. in case the showing wasn’t enough for y’all.#but the showing part is what made everyone be like ‘ew Shannon just changed Sophie’s personality’ nope! not what happened! Sophie changed#in a very realistic manner#kotlc#keeper of the lost cities#sophie foster#keefe sencen#kotlc stellarlune#shannon messenger
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I kind of hate all the comparisons between kipperlily and like. Those fuckass "affirmative action fucks me over I wish I was [minority] so it would be easier" people because none of that. Is what she said. She said the bad kids already had more experience with adventuring before they got to augefort and it meant they had an advantage. Which is true. Yeah Riz was lower-class but his mum was a COP. Riz, Kristen and Fig had parents who were heroes (Sandra-Lynn is an active ranger, Kristen's parents are paladins, Sklonda is a rogue), Adaine's family was super rich and politically influential, Fabian had both. Gorgug's the only one who wasn't actively at an advantage [IN THE CONTEXT OF HAVING PRIOR KNOWLEDGE ABOUT HEROISM] and she didn't have shit to say about him. Kipperlily was the first person in her family to try heroism, the bad kids are largely legacy admissions.
Additionally to the people comparing it to the "anti-affirmative action" crowd: do you know what affirmative action is. The bad kids didn't receive special consideration on their admissions to aguefort or scholarships or additional financial support or extended assessment times or anything. How could she be mad about affirmative action if none of these people received affirmative action. What they DID have was knowledge about their classes that started much earlier than high school, which is what Kipperlily said in her file that she thought grading should be adjusted for because she did not have that.
To me it's less like affirmative action and more like augefort is like an IQ test. They pretend that it's fair and objective, but you can be taught how to do those things from a younger age, and if your parents took the time to teach you pattern recognition and shit then you'll do better on an IQ test than someone who wasn't trained for it and everyone will act like that makes you innately smarter when it doesn't. It just means someone taught you how to do that earlier.
Barring Gorgug, every one of the bad kids had access to information about heroism and their class at a younger age than Kipperlily did, which primed them for success in their classes. Every one of them got additional information about mysteries from their families (and even direct battle-tactics training from Bill), Riz especially with getting classified info out of his mum. Kipperlily does not have hero relatives. She's the first in her family line to attend a hero school. She knew nothing about it before her first day, meanwhile Kristen was already the chosen of Helio, Adaine had already been attending the best wizard school in the country, Fabian had already spent his whole life training with his father, and Riz was already involved in solving mysteries using info and tactics he got from his parents.
They aren't necessarily "privileged" (except Fabian and Adaine), but Kipperlily didn't say they were, she said that in the specific context of attending a hero school they had a prior-knowledge advantage. Saying they didn't is like comparing the grades of a kid who's academic career started with preschool with a kid who didn't attend until middle school and acting like one of them wasn't better prepared.
#like cmon people. you already hated her so you're reaching to justify it more#is it reason to be as hateful as she is? no. but she was 14 when she said the shit about riz's dad and. CRUCIALLY. kids from healthy homes#dont wish death on their parents lol. like objectively#shes not poor but neither is fabian. neither was season 1 adaine. and yet we wouldn't say their home lives were GREAT now would we#or that they had nothing to complain about just because they were economically advantaged#she thinks its unfair because she came into augefort blind meanwhile riz had been doing investigator shit for years already#and she has not learned healthy coping mechanisms. like brennan calls her anger childish and its because shes a CHILD#and she only became this cruel because she's possessed by literally the god of rage. because it was that or death#ive even seen people waxing tragic about every other rat grinder's “deal” with ankarna but acting like kipperlily was just fine with that#because she was angry already. she DIED. and having anger issues/emotional regulation issues doesnt mean you WANT TO DESTROY THE WORLD#she probably wanted to live just as much as any of the others did. and this was the sacrifice. she was 16#d20#fhjy#fhjy spoilers#fantasy high#kipperlily copperkettle
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Friday Training (Sep. 27, 2024)
#gavi#pablo gavi#fc barcelona#barca#fcb#6post#pg6#i dont have anything original or insightful to say here#i just want it to be known that i have the desire to let out the worst most annoying reeee sounds whenever i see gavi#he looks so strong and healthy and ARMSSSS for days thank you amen#anyways if anyone actually reads my crazy tags please pray for me im going through a really terrible and difficult time right now#and i could use the good energy/vibes/etc#literally have been using football as a coping mechanism (thank god they're winning otherwise that would be terrible for me)
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Hppy 9th anniversary to MCSM!!! I don't rlly got much rn so uhhhh
GO MY TNT MANIAC THAT I'M SO UNHEALTHYLY OBSESSED WITH 💥💥💥💥💥💥
(Made him for an art collab hehe)
Plus some other old (Lukxel) sketches I've been hiding too, all from a fanfic I'm currently fighting myself to finish LOOLLL
#Thought that even if some arts are old I might post them anyways so I can be more active here#I'm rlly trying y'all my mental health has just kinda gone to shit recently tho </3#plus burnout sucks bootyhole but I'm slowly crawling out of it#minecraft story mode#mcsm#mcsm axel#mcsm lukas#my art#digital art#mcsm art#mcsm fanart#mcsm lukxel#lukxel#<- literally my coping mechanism rn LOL#thank you for bein patient it means a lot ^^#even if this fandom pisses me off sometimes I gotta be there to at least support the actual good things in it#Moch works
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Thinking about Lestat seeing Louis’s eating patterns as a waste of his gift/himself while Armand gives Louis food that he literally can not enjoy or digest just so he has something on his stomach
#if i had to give each of louis relationship a theme loustat would be shame and loumand would be enabling#which are both really bad ways of “helping” a partner with an ed#lestats shame and anger tactics only make louis more resentful and less likely to eat#while armand having the little drinks and exotic animals and the human food dont actually deal with louis problem head on-#cus at the end of the day louis is still not eating enough#and i think they really exemplifies both of their trauma and abandonment issues#both of them came up chronically food insecure#lestat was put into the role of provider at a very early age and stayed in that role until he died/was turned#so for him rejecting what lestat gives is like rejecting lestat cus he doesnt have anything else to make him “useful”#and lestats reaction to rejection is anger and control so he tries to shame and control louis into eating more/human#while armand has been abandoned by literally everyone he loves up till this point so for him its like#ok i can make people dtay if i give them what they want and what louis wants is to not feel bad about eating and so armand does that#but it still doesnt get to the root of the issue which is louis having poor coping mechanisms for his grief and other emotions#like either way you slice it. louis is not meeting his nutritional needs. he eats drinks from one guy eats a fox or some other small animal#when he should be having like two dudes at least#and then he has human food which according to anne rice makes vampires vomit up their whole stomach content so...#louis imma send you to my therapist shes great#interview with the vampire#iwtv#louis de pointe du lac#amc iwtv#lestat de lioncourt#ldpdl#iwtv 2022#armand iwtv#armand#loumand#loustat#like armand gives louis food he cant eat just so he knows theres something in louis stomach even for a short while
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One last thing if I see anyone say that mephone is meant to be an actual literal child like I saw when the last episode dropped I'm sending y'all back to 4th grade English
#Firstly hes a fucking. Object just because he was built “a few months ago” doesnt mean he literally has an infants brain#He's a grown ass man that gets infantilized by his abuser and was never raised to have adult coping mechanisms#He's not a child he's a SHELTERED ADULT#inanimate insanity#ii spoilers#inanimate insanity spoilers#ii17#ii17 spoilers
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to cleanse myself a little from the SHEER RAGE, i'm going to talk about one of things i found hilarious from the novel
Lu Yizhan was really just fucking with everyone the whole time
he knew everything
i'm not even going to talk about the times he waited exactly seven seconds to "forget" about the game, or him pretending to be all confused and asking if Bai Liu is selling his body, and then if he works in a circus (a goddamn circus, how he kept a straight face i have no idea, the man deserves an oscar), but
the rose factory arc. with tang erda. telling him to his face "gosh, officer, i'm so sorry, i just took my eyes away from him for one second, it's all my fault, BUT i promise he's not evil AND he's my friend so can he get a lesser sentence please <3?"
bitch
bitch, you were there. for all the worldlines Tang Erda went through, and more
you know exactly what is going through this man's mind
you know who he sees when he looks at Bai Liu
was it fun to tell him it was your little meow meow instead???????
#literally ���it's not that he's evil he just lacks empathy and commits morally grey (but legal!!!) acts for money”#anyway we all need our coping mechanisms i guess#fucking with your traumatized junior is just#...yeah#ghg thoughts#i became a god in a horror game#ghg#ghg spoilers#...i'm still not happy about the thing with bai liu's psychiatrist
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It's crazy how Zoro's anxiety and worrisome nature gets overlooked it's what drives him it's what hinders him it's the way he worries ALL the time and is a skeptic and yet his trust is completely in Luffy and everyone on the crew!!!! Do you not see what I see!!!
#ugh he makes me ill#how tashigi's resemblance to kuina obviously rattles him#like can we talk about his relationship to kuina and death and the absolute fear he shows towards death throughout wano#i can talk about robin and zoro in skypeia as well NO ONE TALKS ABOUT THEM!!!!#has panic attacks at seeing kuma in saoboady. sanji noting “he's so hard on himself” in punk hazard#the fear he has facing literal death in wano. the weight on his shoulders with sanji's wish of wanting zoro to kill him#working out as much as he does even when he's injured is clearly a coping mechanism he has#i should just make a post at this point lmao#roronoa zoro#one piece
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I know I mostly portray Suchin as silly goofy in my text posts and art but the woman is paranoid and stressed 24/7 because of her danger sense.
She vomits from stress frequently, almost never gets a full nights sleep, stress breakouts, general heart problems, the list goes on.
She’s just really good at hiding the fact she’s a nervous wreck. The mediation helps.
#I love super power side effects#it will literally overload her senses if she panics#thus the mediation as a self soothing method#it’s probably the only healthy coping mechanism she has#no murdering red dragon members don’t count#half the side effects of her danger sense were reason she didn’t notice she was pregnant despite Takeda not being an asymptotic pregnancy#being able to trust Kenshi actually helped with bc she could relax around him#also she’s not insecure#just severally paranoid#I feel like I should say that#suchin#mk suchin#mortal kombat#cfa posts
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I already knew the things Calypso did to Odysseus but honestly just listening to Love In Paradise over and over really just finally had it click and I realize how much projection I've done onto Odysseus and how most of it is honestly true and could most likely be true
#chat…#i..#i hate Calypso#dude#literally#HES ME#HES FUCKING ME#im gonna cry#Odysseus deserved so much better#HE DIDNT FUCKING WANT IT#HE HAD NO CHOICE#HE LITERSLLY WANTED TO DIE#chat when when you project trauma and your horrible coping mechanism onto a thousand year old man#like#he's not thounds of years old#but his story is#epic the musical#epic#the odyssey#odysseus#tw sh implied#tw sa implied#tw suicide#tw ed implied#Not too implied#just.. would like y'all to be aware that's what's being implied#stay safe out there chat#sobs#Odys me#my post
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I’m now fairly certain that every Persona protagonist is (or has been) some flavour of depressed/traumatized, with the exception of Chad Narukami
#naoya totally zoned out: ‘I should’ve died instead of my twin brother’#his friends: awkwardly staring in horror at him#tatsuya: ‘I can get stabbed a little it’s fine I deserve it I deserve eternal torment. this is a healthy coping mechanism’#shadow maya: ‘you’re not happy at all are you?’#maya: ‘lmao whaaat??? no no I’m happy all the time definitely don’t have crippling pyrophobia or the weight of existence on my shoulders’#now idk p3 at all but those guys summon their personas by literally shooting themselves in the head#there is no way emo blue or suspiciously cheery red are well adjusted#ren: canonically has police trauma. heavily implied to not take care of himself properly unless his talking cat reminds him#I also don’t know p4 that well but from what little I have seen#Yu: ‘I mean there are murders happening but I’m just vibing with my friends for the most part are you guys ok???’#storyrambles#persona#random thoughts
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lister bird the type of guy to self sabotage when a relationship is going too well because he has a chronic fear of commitment and and abandonment issues 🫶
#lister bpd rambling in tags okok so.#stems from the childhood neglect and adults being generally Strange with him#hes like okay so do you actually like me kr do u just want to sleep with me lol#and then when he gets the answer he wants hes like okay well thats funny bcus ur lying to me rn and want me dead#i think jimmy would eventually pick up on the pattern after they go through like. A good few breakups and be like haha heyyy so mayb we ++#shuld go talk ur psychiatrist abt this bcus it has a name lol#and listers like well fuck me (not literally) and gets some well deserved dbt#n at this point hopefully their smart enough to knowthey shouldnt try again until lister sorta understand what this all means for him#and gets some hashtag health coping mechanisms going#but ofc theyre still bros so jimmy + rowan b supporting him in the bg too i lobe them their so silly#iwbft#lister bird#bicci
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AroAce Five is something that can be soooo personal
#like his 'wife' being a coping mechanism for the isolation he's suffered and also kinda based off his mom??? very much what a thirteen year#old views a romantic relationship as#also how she's an extension of himself like???#don't quote ne on this tho I've only watched s1#also this is NOT because he's in a child body fuck that#literally despise how often the 'childish one/youngest' is headcanoned aroace as default#think pidge from vld or luffy from one piece#love aroace luffy but you can tell a lot of people just see him as so because of his behavior#anyways#number five#five hargreeves#tua#the umbrella academy
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hey i know we are talking about a franchise steeped in the supernatural since day 1 but i beg you to read up on dissociative disorders
#artsy's posts#five nights at freddy's#fnaf books#fnaf: an interactive novel series#fnaf: the week before#fnaf the week before#the week before#phone guy#ralph (fnaf)#this has been bothering me for a while#'holy shit the ghosts can gaslight us' NO those are NOT the ghosts for once#i know ralph is an unreliable narrator#and has been shown to use denial to cope#THAT BEING SAID.#the wording of 'maybe these lasps in memory are a SURVIVAL MECHANISM' .#THAT'S LITERALLY DISSOCIATION#that's dissociative amnesia!#just#aurghhhhh#even if phone guy isnt literally in my brain i am#frustrated#at this
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